My previous entry has been updated and should be re-read by all those who read it originally. EDIT: Post has been made private for reasons I'm not going into.
All of what I wrote earlier is staying there for posterity's sake and will hopefully serve as a reminder of a feww things:
1) Making assumptions based on only half, or part of, the story is a Bad ThingTM. Unfortunately it's human nature, especially when one doesn't know that it's only part of the story.
2) Telling only part of the story leads to problems sooner or later.
3) I should keep my big mouth shut and stop speaking for my peers.
So once again I'm sorry. You don't have to accept it if you don't want to, but I truly am sorry.